In essence, sex addiction enacts in real life the underlying deep-rooted conflicting, and painful relationships patterns from early life that distort current views and beliefs and self, others, sexuality and intimacy. It is a symptom of a stuck developmental process that occurred as a result of some aspect of inadequate parenting or an experience of being disenfranchised from peer groups in later childhood.

"What everyone wants - someone to love me, to make me feel safe and secure, someone to make me feel good inside."

Basically, treat him like a King in bed and let him do to you whatever he wishes to do to you. Deny your man nothing and give him everything. If you do that, you'll be able to please him better than any other woman out there. I mentioned a "secret weapon", there isn't just one - there are several. And I'll tell you one now and another one later. It's called anallingus. Yes, you guessed it right. It means that you should expand his sexual horizons by licking him from behind as you are giving him a hand job.

I words I hear are: loss of self-esteem, despair, loneliness, frustration, guilt, anger and self-hatred. Sex addicts new to treatment often feel their sexual behaviors involve immoral, weird, disgusting actions that fill them with shame and self contempt.

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What if the office colleague messing up with your man turns out to be woman and on digging deep, you find out that there has been a series of lurid and hair-rising texts being exchanges and you might as well end up finding some semi-nude or nude photographs of the women involved in sexting with your husband or partner! This is cheating because it indicates emotional betrayal from your partner. It is true that semi-nude or nude photos does not indicate actual physical contact but at the same time, it is extremely close to actual physical relationship. The question that rises over and again whether the person receiving the text messages or the semi-nude or nude messages thought that the lady sending the messages actually intended to have sex or not?